(he's 6'4") We're both working hard to lose weight though and I'm happy that my healthy eating habits are rubbing off on him and his healthy exercise habits are rubbing off on me. Everyone seems to have a different opinion, I always feel more comfortable with a man who is much bigger than I am.
Saturday, June 21, 2008, PM My hubby was SO skinny when we first started dating. He has gained some weight but is still super fit and trim. However, I like a man who is broad across the shoulders, and this can really only be achieved by weightlifting. A really muscular guy I like OK, but a muscular guy with some fat, so I can't see all the weird muscle lines is what I like most. Saturday, June 21, 2008, PM If a man is obviously overweight as opposed to being bigger because of muscle, then they are a definite turn off.
Saturday, June 21, 2008, PM I'm turned off by fat men (more than 40 lbs overweight) for the same reason "shuts the attraction off" - obesity is a sign that something's wrong in his life and he's not dealing with it. Saturday, June 21, 2008, PM I LOVE a well rounded chubby man!
Not huge and blubbery with monster thighs that rub together when he walks.
He is downright exhausted after about two minutes of sex. I personally am in about the best shape I could be...
I workout every day, ride my bike an hour to work, horseback ride, lift weights, eat very healthy.
I guess I agree with the previous poster and the only fat I can really tolerate and still find attractive is a little belly fat as long as it's minimal!
Maybe because I try to stay fit/toned myself, I feel that men should do the same to stay healthy.Recently my husband ran into health issues that caused him to completely change his diet.He has dropped weight to the point that he is really skinny. I hate to say it, but I don't find him all that attractive now.I love him more than anyone else, but I wish he would put on a few pounds, especially in the butt. I can't complain too much, at least he is eating healthy and I hope to have him around a long, long time.Saturday, June 21, 2008, PM My BF has gained 30 pounds, all fat, since we started dating, and it's pretty unattractive. He looks okay in clothes, but is constantly pulling his shirt down and trying to stretch it a little to cover his belly.But since then I found myself drawn even more so to bigger man. Saturday, October 21, 2006, AM LOL - I've thought of this myself. However, I've been on a "lifestyle change" for about five years now and recently when I find myself attracted to a guy's personality, then I notice he's fat-in-the-belly, I try to shut the attraction off.