I had just begun corresponding with a woman from Ukraine when in her 2nd letter she asked for money for correspondence.
I said "no" and in her next letter she did everything from pleading to insults to questioning my manhood if I didn't send the money.
I already knew she was scamming, but your site informed me of some other scams I hadn't thought of.
I don't have her email address anymore, if I had known about your site earlier I would have saved it.
Our girls go to Internet - cafe to send letters to there Loved and only. This money which are necessary for women are really the last ones. Next letter you must sent me cod transfer, your full name and sum. The first time I saw reference to her on this site I thought; 'Gee, this guy just isn't giving the poor girl a break! Hey, she's attractive, and makes you feels like 'you are the one'.
They spend much money and time for it as Internet-cafe isn't close to their house. This only and Loved man disappears forever without writing a word of the course. They are so necessary for their child's and her lives. If you really want to help me with a payment of our correspondence, I will thankful to you. ' The second time I saw her name mentioned I thought; 'Whoa, what did this guy do to her to deserve this! She cries that all these guys who write to her are cheaters, treacherous, untrue, and how happy she's finally found you! She then tells you how words are meaningless, actions are genuine.
I wrote to her under another name and found out that the responses to that name were exactly the same form letters that I had been receiving when I wrote her my original real name.
I continued to do this about 4 more times and each time each response was the same even though I had asked different things under the different names.
You will notice the last two paragraphs, with the exception of the name, are identical. Rather than agreeing to a Western Union arrangement, I politely tell her that both my accountant and banker tell me such an arrangement is not an option under the circumstances.
But would she please send me the e-mail address of her 'Internet-Cafe' and I would arrange to pay for all her correspondence to 'me'.
Or if this was not possible, I asked her to send me information on the local branch of a major bank which had a USA corresponding bank and I would open an account there and make payment from that account.