Insecurity in your man can also make you antisocial and stunt your growth.
Before you know it, you’d start to avoid all your friends and spend all your time with him.
In all my years of dating men, if there’s one thing that’s stuck out like a sore thumb in a man, it’s his insecurity.
[Read: Signs to tell if he really is the right man for you] The problems of dating insecure men Insecure men are terribly jealous. In fact, they’ll make you feel like you’re being the bad one in the relationship.
They’ll behave like they’re sacrificing so much for your happiness, and load you up with guilt.
[Read: How to deal with insecurity in a relationship] That’s the strange power of insecurity and insecure men in a relationship.
Experiences with insecure men The first time I ever dated an insecure guy was almost a decade ago.
Almost all the time, you’ll just end up assuming that your boyfriend’s only trying to help you.
If you’re stuck in a relationship with an insecure man, you’ll have to spend all your life trying to please him and make him feel happy and satisfied in the relationship.
A secure man wouldn’t be offended or threatened if his woman speaks to other guys *unless she’s had a sexual history with that guy*.
But if your man is insecure, chances are, he’ll tell you how lonely and awkward he felt when you were so busy talking and having fun with another guy. They look for ways to pierce your heart and get things done their way.
[Read: 15 shocking signs of insecurity in a subtly controlling boyfriend] Insecure men aren’t always insecure though.